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The Four Month Sleep Regression | What Every New Parent Should Know

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Baby Sleep Regressions: Causes, Signs & How to Manage Them

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What Is a Sleep Regression?

A baby sleep regression is a period of temporary sleep disruption where a baby who was previously sleeping well suddenly starts waking more often, resisting sleep, or struggling to settle. Despite the name, sleep regressions are not a step backwards, they are a sign of developmental progress.

During these phases, your baby’s brain and nervous system are rapidly changing. New skills, increased awareness, and sleep maturation can temporarily impact sleep patterns. While exhausting, sleep regressions are a normal and expected part of infant development.


What Causes Sleep Regression?

Sleep regressions are typically triggered by a combination of:

  • Neurological development

  • Changes in sleep cycles

  • Physical milestones (rolling, crawling, sitting)

  • Increased sensory awareness

  • Growth spurts

As your baby’s brain matures, sleep becomes lighter and more complex. This means babies wake more easily and need support learning how to move between sleep cycles smoothly.


The 4-Month Sleep Regression (or Progression)

The 4-month sleep regression is the most well-known and for good reason. At around 3–5 months, your baby’s sleep architecture permanently changes. Newborn sleep patterns shift into more adult-like sleep cycles with lighter stages of sleep.

This is why many sleep specialists prefer to call it a sleep progression, not a regression. Your baby isn’t sleeping “worse”  they are sleeping differently.

Once this change happens, it doesn’t revert back. This is why some babies suddenly wake every 45–90 minutes overnight.


Signs and Symptoms of the 4-Month Sleep Regression

Difficulty Falling Asleep

Your baby may resist naps or bedtime, even when clearly tired. Settling may take longer, and previously effective methods may suddenly stop working.

Frequent Night-Time Awakenings

Babies wake fully between sleep cycles and may need help resettling, especially if they rely on feeding, rocking, or external sleep aids.

Irritability Upon Waking

Waking upset, short naps, or difficulty resettling are common as your baby adjusts to lighter sleep stages.

Reduced Total Sleep Time

Shorter naps and more night waking can temporarily reduce overall sleep, leading to overtiredness if not supported.


Other Periods of Sleep and Settling Disruption

Beyond 4 months, sleep disruptions often occur around:

  • 8–10 months (mobility, separation awareness)

  • 12 months (developmental leaps, walking)

  • 18–24 months (language explosion, emotions)

These phases are usually temporary and linked to development rather than bad habits.


How to Manage Sleep Regressions Gently

Try to Stay Calm

Sleep regressions are stressful, but they are not permanent. Babies are highly sensitive to caregiver stress, and calm, predictable responses help regulate their nervous system.

Stay Consistent

Maintain familiar routines, sleep environments, and settling cues. Consistency provides safety during change.

Remember the 4 Foundations of Healthy Sleep

  • Biology: Age-appropriate wake windows

  • Environment: Dark, calm, predictable sleep space

  • Routine: Consistent wind-down cues

  • Regulation: Responsive settling and emotional safety

Make Sure Bub Is Getting Enough Sleep

Overtiredness can intensify regressions. Prioritise naps, earlier bedtimes if needed, and protect sleep wherever possible during these phases.


FAQs on Sleep Regression

How long does a sleep regression last?
Most regressions last 2–6 weeks, depending on support, sleep foundations, and the child’s temperament.

Can sleep regressions be avoided?
They can’t be avoided, but they can be managed gently with the right support and expectations.

Should I sleep train during a regression?
This depends on the family, the baby, and the approach. Many families benefit from guidance that works with development, not against it.


If you are navigating ongoing sleep challenges, you may also find these helpful:

  • Understanding sleep associations

  • The truth about sleep regressions vs progressions

  • Gentle ways to support independent sleep

  • When to seek personalised sleep support


Final Thoughts

Sleep regressions are not a sign you are doing anything wrong. They are a sign your baby is growing, learning, and developing exactly as they should.

With calm support, realistic expectations, and strong sleep foundations, these phases pass and often leave more mature sleep behind.

If sleep feels overwhelming, you don’t have to do it alone. Gentle, responsive support can make all the difference.

Much Love

Donna

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